The Question
So.
My maid, who has been with me a long time, just asked if her daughter - who has been living with us since summer because she's taking up her college studies here in Manila - could use my wi-fi so she could do some school research or something.
I immediately and resolutely said "No."
Does this make me a bad person?
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ReplyDeleteOh burn! Hahaha.
ReplyDelete"Bad" I don't think so. Saka mo na payagan pag thesis season LOL.
Kinda. I want to know your reason/s first for saying no. But if there's nothing Earth shattering about it, I'd prolly say yes. Hehe.
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Kasi naman wi-fi lang yun. Pagbigyan mo na please. Kawawa naman. Hindi naman yata kayo nagkakasabay gumamit.
1. I didn't think she was going to use internet access exclusively for studying. Also, I had already discovered someone's attempts to use my desktop PC, foiled only by the fact that it's password-protected.
Delete2. My second thought was that she would hand out the password to my wi-fi to all her friends.
3. My wi-fi is personal, and I don't like sharing my personal stuff.
Yeah, so, since they already live here with free electricity, water, rice and other stuff - yeah, she can go buy one of those prepaid internet cards.
Justified. :)
DeleteThank you, Mugen.
DeleteShe seems to be a nice kid but those were the first thoughts that raced through my mind, so...I'm gonna go with instinct for this.
spell beeeee-yooootch lolz
ReplyDeletePFFFT!
DeleteIt's not like I said "No" then ordered them to sweep out the chimney or anything.
Also - nice to see you up and about.
Bad? No.
ReplyDeleteThere are limits to what you can freely give.
That was what I was telling myself right afterwards, john stan.
DeleteStrange, though, why I still felt I had to get peoples' opinions for something that seemed so...logical.
nah....that means you have standards :)
ReplyDeleteYou're not a bad person, just selfish and suspicious. ;-)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Joel!
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ReplyDeletehad to delete my comment. i didn't see your reasons above kase.
ReplyDeleteDamn, I wish I'd seen what you'd originally written hehe.
Deletereasonable.
ReplyDeleteThanks for chiming in, gillboard.
Delete@ruddie: no you're not.
ReplyDeletebut an outright "No!"? hongtoroytoroy nomoooon!! lol :p
methinks, an "uhmmm, no." would've been a tad lighter kind of rejection.. :)
Uhhh yeah Nate, I suppose I could've softened the rejection - maybe the terseness of it was what bothered me afterwards.
DeleteIn hindsight, my rejection was short and snappy because I guess I didn't want to hem and haw and say "I'll think about it" when I knew fully well the answer was indubitably "No."
no. especially after i read the justifications :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, ItsMePeriod!
Deletenagkamoral dilemma ako sa post nato. haha.
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